tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5570801609581631361.post851853522441705195..comments2024-03-06T17:02:32.359-08:00Comments on the asshat lounge: Day In/ Day OutKonohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13865029570865495659noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5570801609581631361.post-56258081628924486402020-04-09T17:25:20.520-07:002020-04-09T17:25:20.520-07:00looby and daisy - i know that i bear a lot of the ...looby and daisy - i know that i bear a lot of the responsibility for the state of the situation. i also know there are things i could do to maybe help it. She isn't a horrible human and in many ways she is quite decent, (i've learned this from reading Ms. Daisy and what she has said about her previous relationship) it's just we don't really work together. And that's okay, i worry more about the boyos than anything cuz i know how fucked up i was when shit hit the fan but i'm doing my best to make sure they understand that sometimes things don't work out in the end and that it's okay if they don't. It doesn't have to be anyone's fault, at times it's just a natural progression of things, some flowers grow differently and are incompatible in the same garden. As for being a great father? i don't really know. I know that there are not two humans i love more than the boyos and that i'm trying to give them the skills to cope and navigate a planet both dangerous and beautiful. I had a good teacher. I'm working hard to honor him and pass those nuggets of whatever it is on to the boyos. Konohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13865029570865495659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5570801609581631361.post-22175828258269812082020-04-08T18:47:48.621-07:002020-04-08T18:47:48.621-07:00Read an article detailing the history of prior pan...Read an article detailing the history of prior pandemics - many fell prey to conspiracy theories, many turned to religion preparing for the end of days. But civilation came out the other side - likely changed for the good for a short time, before reverting back to abusing the earth again, until the next round. We'll get through this - well, most of us. <br /><br />One thing i know for sure? Your boyos know what's up. They see who you are, and what you are enduring for their benefit. When they are old enough, they will look forward to the day that you an get out, and the three of you can spend time together without those fucking eggshells. Abusive? Yeah. It's fucking abusive. Hold on, brother... you will get to the other side. You're a great father.daisyfaehttp://daisyfae.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5570801609581631361.post-35990837650766241042020-03-30T02:49:45.747-07:002020-03-30T02:49:45.747-07:00Oooh, kono that sounds like hard work and a real t...Oooh, kono that sounds like hard work and a real test even of your sangfroid and forebearance. You're too clam for this to happen (I think!) but people acting like that create such a pressure cooker of tension in a house, which could explode at any minute, when she just adds on one complaint too many. Well done for turning away, as far as you can, from all that bitterness and unhappiness she must hold witin somewhere. Best of luck my friend. It won't be easy for cooped-up families.loobyhttps://loobynet.co.uk/noreply@blogger.com