tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5570801609581631361.post3336659544822015180..comments2024-03-06T17:02:32.359-08:00Comments on the asshat lounge: The Future of Saturday NightKonohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13865029570865495659noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5570801609581631361.post-65066934391791986962019-07-05T16:26:04.546-07:002019-07-05T16:26:04.546-07:00this saturday night meal is still deeply embedded ...this saturday night meal is still deeply embedded in my memory banks. it was just such a dinner that led me to the conclusion that i *would* get out someday - not knowing how, or when, or with what. he wasn't/isn't a bad person - far from it. i just didn't want to be there, certainly not forever. <br /><br />much to my surprise, before i could bring up the topic, he asked me one night if we should just go ahead and get divorced. The Boy was a freshman at university, and my (now) ex had been living 3 hours away at our summer vacation place, working by remote, for a few years. <br /><br />what amazes me, more than a decade later - we are ALL so much happier. He found new love (something that the kids and i never anticipated), and his wife has helped bring our clan together as fully loving team members with the kids/grandkids. <br /><br />i hope you get here. it's a good place. you're good parents, and it will be ok, i think...daisyfaehttp://daisyfae.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5570801609581631361.post-15731265944895131722019-07-03T01:37:47.108-07:002019-07-03T01:37:47.108-07:00Oooh, that's really articulate about a very co...Oooh, that's really articulate about a very common state of affairs which never loses its power to hover in the air. It's impossible to keep the fires burning for ever, but it still feels like a sort of loss, or resignation anyway. But if it produces such great metaphors, then please don't ever have sex again :)<br /><br />P.S. I'm sorry I've taken so long to get onto the this. I'll try subscribing again with a different email address.loobyhttps://loobynet.co.uknoreply@blogger.com